Tackling mean people is hard when they always have an ulterior motive even in their seemingly kind gestures. The perfect example of this is Myra in Tula Pahate Re on ZEE5 who is always dominating over Isha Nimkar. While Abhidnya Bhave plays Myra, Gayatri Datar is seen playing Isha on the popular Zee Marathi show.
Watch Myra’s mean behaviour towards Isha on Tula Pahate Te
If you get taunted by someone like Myra, here are ways to deal with it:
1. Take life as a video game
Didn’t Super Mario teach you anything? Look at people like a video game. You can only control your player; the other elements depend on the way you react to it. If you stop giving them a reaction, they will stop bothering you eventually.
Your yoga class about controlling your anger was on point. As you keep practising mindful breathing, it will help you tackle the most awkward situations, like wanting to make the mean person a breathing punch bag.
3. Be Kind
Stop yourself from getting defensive as a sword for a sword is just going to result into a bloodshed (the metaphorical one, guys). Unless the situation is gone to your superiors and when you are made to speak your side.
4. Don’t stoop to their level
Maintain your standards. Each time a negative thought pops into your head about them, divert it with a silver lining, that way you can train your mind.
5. Think about the best thing in your life
Sometimes it can be hard to acknowledge and express gratitude about the things in your life. But, do it. It will bring in a wave of positivity with your soul. Think about your dreams, let them motivate to be your anchor.
So, the next time you are feeling bad, remind yourself, the problem is in them, it is never you. Do tell us in the comments how you tackle negativity in your life!
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