1. Stop the conversation once he starts talking back
If you’re a follower of Zee Marathi’s Agga Bai Sasubai, you very well know by now that Soham is a spoiled brat! Not only does his behaviour anger us but it’s Asawari’s leniency towards him, that gets to us too. And we bet you feel the same way. Asawari is responsible for spoiling Soham and she has it in her hands to set him right as well. We suggest 5 ways in which she can do the same.
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Soham has a habit of talking back and one way Asawari can correct this behaviour of his is by refusing to talk to him at all, if he raises his voice. So if Soham starts talking back. all that Asawari has to do is end the conversation altogether and give him the silent treatment. She can resume the chat, only once Soham agrees to talk to her properly.
2. Stop doing Soham's chores
Even though Soham humiliates Asawari time and again, the fact of the matter is that he can’t survive without her. From his clothes, to his breakfast, Soham is dependent on Asawari for every single thing. He takes Asawari’s kindness for granted and she can set him straight by refusing to do his chores. Asawari needs to make Soham more independent. She needs to start telling him to do his own work. It’s only then that Soham will realise her worth and start respecting her.
3. Take a back seat
Now that Soham is married, Asawari needs to realise that there’s another woman in his life, who can take care of his needs and vice-versa. She doesn’t need to fill in for the two. Only then will Soham realise that Asawari isn’t his helper, but his mother, who has her own life to take care of and can’t keep running after him for the smallest of things.
4. Learn how to say no
Asawari goes through extreme measures to make Soham happy, so much so, that she recently sold her mangalsutra to buy an expensive watch that he desired! It’s because of Asawari’s inability to say no that Soham has now begun to feel like he can get whatever he wants. Asawari needs to start saying no to Soham if there are things that she genuinely can’t do for him. He’s her child, not a king!
5. Stand up for herself
Asawari is always looking for Soham’s approval on how she should live her life. Be it the way she is dressed or something that she wishes to do, if Soham doesn’t agree, Asawari will go with whatever he wants. Is this the way to live? She needs to start standing up for herself and her beliefs. Only once she respects herself will Soham start respecting her.
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